A Moment Like This

Sorry I have been absent for a while in the blog world. 

After a week of sleepless nights, 

some tears, 

lots of homework,

and exams....

we are all feeling much better now!

We went to a Yale basketball game!  Thanks Court for taking us!

I have never seen a place quite like the Yale gym. 

Very Hogwarts-esque.

High, vaulted ceilings, chandeliers, and no air-conditioning.

And so much fun!

And, of course, Valentine's Day :)

Tony was my first ever Valentine.... 

and he will be my Valentine forever!

We exchanged gifts in the morning 

(only because Tony knows how impatient I am about opening presents...)

Then we went to school. ALL. DAY.

Tony picked me up after class with a rose in hand, 

so I knew we were going to have a fun night. 

When we got home, the house was all clean, roses were waiting on the table, along with 

a dinner setting for 2 and lots (and lots) of chocolate.  We ate yummy italian food in our sweats!

Tony made a plaque for me with a very sweet message :)

I gave him a picture book illustrating our second year together

set to the lyrics of Kelly Clarkson's song

"Moment Like This"

so..... practically a wedding album ;)

My husband is just the best.  

Oh and funny poem of the day....

"Roses are red

But sometimes they're thorny

When I'm with you

I get kind of.....

corny. 

I know what you were thinking.... shame on you!"

Haha <3

Finding (and Enjoying!) Nemo

Coming from Montana,

We have seen a lot of snow storms

We have made innumerable snowmen

We have shoveled snow until our noses froze

But this was something else. 

We found Nemo.

Holy buckets.

I never thought he would be so excited to see us :)

We ended up with about 30 inches of snow in our area, 

although many of my friends had closer to 40 inches. 

Our first task:

Dig out the car

Then we could have a little fun!

This isn't our car.  We just didn't have the camera, so this is

the car just ahead of ours.  Our looked just like this one!

Tony fell in!  I'm still trying to get him out!

Look how deep that is.... 

Welcome to West Haven, CT!  Home of 

white beaches as far as the eye can see!

Just watch out for tourists!

Taking a stroll

Connecticut's first Montana Snowman!

Go Chargers!

Marriage

A recent acquaintance asked me why Tony and I got married so young

Which got me thinking,

Why did Tony and I get married so young?   

I was (an still am) 22, and Tony was 24

but we definitely weren't factoring our age into the marriage equation.  

So what could possibly posses us to forgo relationship spontaneity, random flirtations, and thrilling "firsts" to shoulder responsibility, monogamy, and a lifetime of the same thing over and over and over again?

Truthfully, that's an easy question to answer.

We like it.  

In fact, we love it.  Because we love each other. 

We still have spontaneity, random flirtations, and thrilling "firsts"

and we are lucky enough to share each and every one with our best friend. 

Marriage isn't a ball and chain for either of us, and this is my list of my top 5 reasons why:

1.) LOVE.  Real, honest-to-goodness, pure, simple, deep love. I love him.  He is my sunshine, my motivation, my steady hand, my foundation, my happiness, and my 

best friend. 

It's the most important reason we got married.  

With every single day that passes, I find the love between us growing stronger.  

2.) TRUST.  I don't have to worry about him, and he doesn't have to worry about me.  Period. Nothing in our past causes shadows of doubt.

Nothing in our future scares me.  

I trust in our love, our relationship, and the foundation of our marriage. 

3.) GOALS.  We are striving to achieve similar goals in life; therefore, we help each other along the twisted, convoluted path of life.  

4.) FAITH.  We share a love of God, Jesus Christ, and our faith in our religious convictions. 

5.) TONY.  He is definitely a huge reason why I wanted to marry so young.  He is one of the best men I have ever met, and I would have been foolish to let him slip through my fingers.  It was time for me to grow up, and cherish the beautiful responsibility of being a wife and, someday, a mother. We may have been young, but our relationship was ready for this step.  

And it's not the same thing over and over and over.  

Every day seems like a better day than yesterday.  

I'm just so lucky to have found Tony. 

We still flirt. 

We still can be spontaneous.  

And we get to spend every day living

happily

ever

after 

:)

Nerds

Go... live your dream!

I will. 

Your dream stinks. I was talking to her.

 

I love Tangled :)  It is so applicable to life.  

Tony and I were discussing our passions the other night.  He described to me my passions (he was totally right), and I took a stab at his (which were also right).  Glad to hear how well we know each other.  I am so grateful to have a constant motivator- patiently supporting me in my endeavor to achieve my dreams.  I hope I can do the same for him.  The most comical moments in our marriage happen when we start attempting to interest each other in our personal passions.  We never get very far on each other.  However, we have both discovered that we are extremely nerdy.  An example of our conversations:

Tony: "Class today blew my mind!  Did you know that HR in most organizations is totally misused, causing employee dissatisfaction and low achievement?"

Me: "Did you know inherent filtration occurs within the primary beam passes through the glass window of the x-ray tube, the insulating oil, and the tubehead seal, which includes approximately 0.5 to 1.0 mm of aluminum?"

Moment of silence.

Both: "Baahahahahahaha....."

Tony: "We are nerds."